Saying ‘I do’ to Mr Wright.

Saying ‘I do’ to Mr Wright.

I think a life update is slightly overdue... Married. As I think of all the words to describe this monumental moment in my life, none seem to capture the true essence and gravity other than spellbinding and incomprehensible. As I look back at written history in focus, engulfed in vivid colour, two feelings come to [...]

Meeting The Parents AKA In-Laws; One Question, Why?

Meeting The Parents AKA In-Laws; One Question, Why?

“Hi, I’m Ben. I like your daughter. Intentions? I’m unsure; what will be, will be!” - this is why meeting the in-laws should not be a priority in 2024. You’re dating, possibly in love. Good time to meet the parents, right? In my opinion, nope. If your mentality is modern, why entertain old fashioned customs? [...]

My 25th Birthday!

My 25th Birthday!

Mother’s day tried to gatecrash my birthday, but I absolutely didn't let that happen! 25, come to mama! Closer to 30 than 20, is a scary thought! I equally love and hate birthdays; I love celebrating life, but the thought of ageing without a moment to pause and just enjoy now, I detest. "Ageing like [...]

Is It Healthy To Have A Selective Memory?

Is It Healthy To Have A Selective Memory?

Forgiving but not forgetting, remembering meanwhile pursing the fantasy we create by selectively choosing favourable memories and artefacts. Who are we kidding, our mental health whilst suppressing reality? Our life is an accumulation of receipts. There’s a trace for everything. Whether that’s figuratively speaking, metaphorically or theoretically, we can’t ignore what has been or what [...]

Milestone: 1000 Followers!

Milestone: 1000 Followers!

I'm speechless! I can't believe it! When I first started this blog which is just under a year old, I never would've thought in my wildest dreams I'd reach this milestone. I didn't even have 100 followers in my head, never mind 1000. Everyone on this platform, start from such humble beginnings, and obviously mine [...]