How Can You Respect Others If You Don’t Respect Yourself?

How Can You Respect Others If You Don’t Respect Yourself?

“How are you? Are you well? Are you okay? How’s life been? If ever you want to talk, I’m here”. Let’s stop this one-sided cycle; who’s loving you? And most importantly, who’s respecting you? It’s like a never ending marathon without a water station in sight. I’m parched and proceeding to dire dehydration if I [...]

Are You Worthy?

Are You Worthy?

Dishing out advice may seem far easier than asking yourself the soul-churning question, often either rhetorical or left unanswered. Am I worthy? Life feels like a movie. You pause, rewind and resume where you left off. Following another’s clapperboard is far easier than your own. Their narrative is easier to confide in than yours. But [...]

Romance Fraud: Alarming Red Flags To Look Out For!

Romance Fraud: Alarming Red Flags To Look Out For!

Falling in love is a magical feeling. Don’t let rose-tinted glasses turn opaque! If he looks, sounds and seems like a gigolo, he probably is one. Let’s spill the tea… You date, connect over mutual interests and over time fall in love. It’s natural and one of the most beautiful aspects in life. Your last [...]

Why Do You Project Your Insecurities Onto Others?

Why Do You Project Your Insecurities Onto Others?

Confidence can be a driving force in conversing. Insecurities can also, but the outcome is drastically different. One question, why? I’m not the enemy, but you programme me to appear like it. I’ve realised people can either lift you or drag you down. Passive aggressiveness aimed at you is usually a result of their own [...]