Why Do You Project Your Insecurities Onto Others?

Why Do You Project Your Insecurities Onto Others?

Confidence can be a driving force in conversing. Insecurities can also, but the outcome is drastically different. One question, why? I’m not the enemy, but you programme me to appear like it. I’ve realised people can either lift you or drag you down. Passive aggressiveness aimed at you is usually a result of their own [...]

What Qualities Do You Look For In A Partner?

What Qualities Do You Look For In A Partner?

Short, tall, beard, no beard, manners, equality, shared political views or are extreme opposites a match made in heaven? What you look for could determine your success, surely? The dating scene is faced paced, almost out of sight that you’re generally one of two people. You behold a sacred list of traits even Prince Charming [...]

Racism in Restaurant? You Decide.

Racism in Restaurant? You Decide.

This appalling, unfathomable experience took place last Sunday, 19th July 2020, at Copper Cafe, Nottingham. I'll give you an insight into our backgrounds from an outsiders perspective. I'm mixed and my partner is tanned with a beard, read into that how you will. Some, associate that with a certain background and want to paint everyone [...]

Justice In A Pandemic; Law Versus Status

Justice In A Pandemic; Law Versus Status

Whether you're a railway ticket officer or Prime Minister of the United Kingdom, will justice be equal or biased? A few days ago, I was tuning into the news, and it was one of the most harrowing things I've heard, especially during such sombre times. Belly Mujinga, 47, a railway ticket office worker, died after [...]