Are We Making Ourselves Happy or Fulfilling Societal Expectations?

Are We Making Ourselves Happy or Fulfilling Societal Expectations?

Job, marriage, mortgage, kids; are these the expectations that narrate our reality? What makes you happy? We're constantly on a hamster wheel day in, day out. Sure, our life sequence is quite repetitive and may not be uplifting, but we've become so engrossed into what we should do and fulfil, the mass and materialistic consumption, [...]

Racism in Restaurant? You Decide.

Racism in Restaurant? You Decide.

This appalling, unfathomable experience took place last Sunday, 19th July 2020, at Copper Cafe, Nottingham. I'll give you an insight into our backgrounds from an outsiders perspective. I'm mixed and my partner is tanned with a beard, read into that how you will. Some, associate that with a certain background and want to paint everyone [...]

Race: Eradicate or Alter?

Race: Eradicate or Alter?

The topic of race can be a taboo subject. But should this subject be in existence at all? Disclaimer: This post is mainly about the term "race" and looking further into the meaning behind it. We always have to declare our race. If it's for a passport, job, medically and so on. It's become engrained [...]

Your Partner Doesn’t Want Kids But You Do? Let’s Talk!

We don't think about these situations, until we find ourselves in it. Is it a deal breaker? What would you do? I found myself watching a tv chat show, where this topic was mentioned. They had a guest appear on the show and she started off by saying she's 40 years old and has a [...]