Meeting The Parents AKA In-Laws; One Question, Why?

Meeting The Parents AKA In-Laws; One Question, Why?

“Hi, I’m Ben. I like your daughter. Intentions? I’m unsure; what will be, will be!” - this is why meeting the in-laws should not be a priority in 2024. You’re dating, possibly in love. Good time to meet the parents, right? In my opinion, nope. If your mentality is modern, why entertain old fashioned customs? [...]

Infidelity: ‘Yes, And?’

Infidelity: ‘Yes, And?’

In the words of Ariana Grande: 'why do you care so much whose **** I ride?' 2024 is off to a wild start. Progressive? No. Disconcerting, quite possibly. *All views are my own* I. Have. No. Words. I don’t really get involved in the politics behind musicians lives… until an agenda is beginning to be [...]

Is It Healthy To Have A Selective Memory?

Is It Healthy To Have A Selective Memory?

Forgiving but not forgetting, remembering meanwhile pursing the fantasy we create by selectively choosing favourable memories and artefacts. Who are we kidding, our mental health whilst suppressing reality? Our life is an accumulation of receipts. There’s a trace for everything. Whether that’s figuratively speaking, metaphorically or theoretically, we can’t ignore what has been or what [...]

Truth: Your Fictitious Mind’s Worst Enemy.

Truth: Your Fictitious Mind’s Worst Enemy.

2023 is definitely a year for the unexpected. A year I’ll remember for the rest of my life, for many reasons. And most of all, I’ve learnt what it is to be, you. The mind’s a powerful thing. Organ in fact. Almost like an orchestra playing to your tune, with your role as conductor. Once [...]

Can Men Have Female Friends?

Can Men Have Female Friends?

Girl meets boy, then they live platonically ever after. Isn't that how the story goes? We're all entitled to know what we want. Whether that's in friendships or relationships, we set our own boundaries. What we will tolerate, and what factors are non-negotiable. Men having female friends? I think this is something many females just [...]