How Can You Respect Others If You Don’t Respect Yourself?

How Can You Respect Others If You Don’t Respect Yourself?

“How are you? Are you well? Are you okay? How’s life been? If ever you want to talk, I’m here”. Let’s stop this one-sided cycle; who’s loving you? And most importantly, who’s respecting you? It’s like a never ending marathon without a water station in sight. I’m parched and proceeding to dire dehydration if I [...]

Are You Worthy?

Are You Worthy?

Dishing out advice may seem far easier than asking yourself the soul-churning question, often either rhetorical or left unanswered. Am I worthy? Life feels like a movie. You pause, rewind and resume where you left off. Following another’s clapperboard is far easier than your own. Their narrative is easier to confide in than yours. But [...]

The Incel Next Door. Why Are Men Becoming Increasingly Envious Of Women?

The Incel Next Door. Why Are Men Becoming Increasingly Envious Of Women?

Battle of the sexes. Why is a women’s role, choice or purpose still being questioned by men? Women. Men. Equality, to a point. But biologically, mentally and physically, we’ll never be the same. So why abuse the apparent disparity?I've noticed a growing number of men for example, express an intense grievance which they at times [...]

Toxicity: Self-inflicted Adrenaline Rush. Why Return For More?

Toxicity: Self-inflicted Adrenaline Rush. Why Return For More?

Crying wolf after welcoming venom with open arms; self-harm or short-sighted stupidity?The more we see, the more we age, the more savvy and informed we’re meant to become. After all, life lessons are wake up calls. But why do we constantly hit the snooze button?It can be a bitter pill to swallow, the truth triggering [...]

Is Time A Healer or Additional Baggage?

Is Time A Healer or Additional Baggage?

One thing we all have at our disposal is time. Time to reflect, plan ahead, time to understand our emotions and most of all time to understand ourselves. The more you cling onto hope of gratification or acknowledgement differentiating between right or wrong, your outlook is the only soul suffering whilst everyone else’s carries on. [...]