First Date: Is It Okay To Split The Bill?

First Date: Is It Okay To Split The Bill?

You’re laughing, gazing into each other's eyes, then the bill comes. Romeo turns into the tax man, what next?! Going Dutch? *please send help* The day’s arrived. This could be Prince Charming, potentially the one, hypothetically the father of your children. Women generally think about these things in the hours and minutes approaching the date. [...]

Is Your Partner Mentally and Emotionally Ready For Marriage? Spot the signs!

Is Your Partner Mentally and Emotionally Ready For Marriage? Spot the signs!

Red flags, warnings and everything in between. How to pick the right one from a sea of imitators! I'm sure almost all of us have been there. Marriage may be looming, or your date may be dating with the intent of marriage. What actions should you look out for? The tell-tale signs may be clearer [...]

Truth: Your Fictitious Mind’s Worst Enemy.

Truth: Your Fictitious Mind’s Worst Enemy.

2023 is definitely a year for the unexpected. A year I’ll remember for the rest of my life, for many reasons. And most of all, I’ve learnt what it is to be, you. The mind’s a powerful thing. Organ in fact. Almost like an orchestra playing to your tune, with your role as conductor. Once [...]

Dating in 2022: Does Celibacy Before Marriage Still Exist?

Dating in 2022: Does Celibacy Before Marriage Still Exist?

The terminology, 'celibacy' is almost frowned upon today. "Why won't you give out? I need to be able to try the goods before even contemplating anything more serious", I've been told. What has happened to society? Today, social media is one of the main obstacles many relationships can't successfully get past. It's pretty clear the [...]

Can Men Have Female Friends?

Can Men Have Female Friends?

Girl meets boy, then they live platonically ever after. Isn't that how the story goes? We're all entitled to know what we want. Whether that's in friendships or relationships, we set our own boundaries. What we will tolerate, and what factors are non-negotiable. Men having female friends? I think this is something many females just [...]