Do You Prefer Meeting Through Dating Apps or Real-Life?

Do You Prefer Meeting Through Dating Apps or Real-Life?

Premeditation vs spontaneity? Love or casual fun? Intentional or non-intentional? Naivety or logical? Risk level: it remains to be seen unless you roll the die. Reality or fiction? Technically they’re both reality, just in different, polarising formats. One is sensory the other is pixelated. Leaving your love life in the hands of a computerised algorithm [...]

Can Divorce Ruin You For Life?

Can Divorce Ruin You For Life?

You commit the rest of your life to each other, only to be strangers balancing between love and hate. Are you ever the same or does it cause long-lasting, unforeseen damage? *Disclaimer: Opinions expressed are my own*. Happiness. Bliss. Love. Like the opening scene of your own fairly tale. We tend to picture marriage in [...]

Why Do You Project Your Insecurities Onto Others?

Why Do You Project Your Insecurities Onto Others?

Confidence can be a driving force in conversing. Insecurities can also, but the outcome is drastically different. One question, why? I’m not the enemy, but you programme me to appear like it. I’ve realised people can either lift you or drag you down. Passive aggressiveness aimed at you is usually a result of their own [...]